每当孩子展现他们的灵活性思维和行为时,一定要表扬他们的进步和这一行为。因为对于孩子来说,这样认知灵活性的发展是具有挑战性的,我们要给孩子信心,告诉他们思考得很好,做得很好,一定记得给他们正面的反馈。
作者王冰玉,波士顿大学教育学硕士,中科院心理咨询师,育儿专栏撰稿人。编辑羚羊,人类幼崽观察家。 参考文献:
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